The Reborn Scholar Wants To Counterattack
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Even if the other party does not have such an idea at the beginning, as the relationship between the two develops to the later stage, the other party's attitude towards him will often move in this direction. In other words, if you have a certain psychological expectation of the other party, this psychological expectation will unconsciously guide the other party's behavior, causing the other party to move towards this psychological expectation, and finally make this prophecy come true. People who...
Gu Weimian held the phone in his hand, his eyebrows raised high.
She really didn't expect that Gu Yuzhu would have the courage to threaten her.
Sometimes, the words of a stupid person are worse than those of a smart one, and their destructive power is several times greater.
Simply put, stupid and evil.
This kind of person is born without brains, and his eyes only know how to focus on the benefits of others.
Whenever something happens to her, she blames the heavens, the earth, and the whole world, blaming herself for not having good parents and for not having a domineering president who likes her.
It was obvious that Gu Yuzhu was stupid and had come to where she was now.
She didn't think carefully about how to consolidate her position or how to better learn Gu Weiman's words and deeds.
You can even make some snacks to please Huo Yan, your future husband.
Gu Yuzhu, however, was thinking about how to deal with her every day.
There is a very strange phenomenon in this world.
It's called a self-fulfilling prophecy.
This thing sounds a bit mysterious, but it actually contains a lot of psychological and neurological principles.
To explain this phenomenon simply, a person's perception of himself often becomes reality.
If someone always says that he is weak and sickly, then over time he will often become truly ill.
If someone always says that he might fail a course, he is very likely to fail. Even if he doesn't fail, his grades will drop.
This phenomenon is also very wonderful in interpersonal communication.
When a person feels that the other person is truly caring about him or her and truly regards him or her as a friend.
Even if the other party does not have such an idea at the beginning, as the relationship between the two develops to the later stage, the other party's attitude towards him will often move in this direction.
Anyway, if you harbor suspicion and malice from the very beginning, and wonder every day whether the other party wants to harm you, it will really end up like this in the end.
In other words, if you have a certain psychological expectation of the other party, this psychological expectation will unconsciously guide the other party's behavior, causing the other party to move towards this psychological expectation, and finally make this prophecy come true.
When someone is trying to verify whether the other person loves her, it is actually a negative self-fulfilling prophecy.
She keeps looking for evidence to prove that "you don't love me", which is actually pushing things in a negative direction.
In the application of interpersonal communication, it is divided into two parts, called acceptance prophecy.
People who understand this can even use this principle to control whether others like or dislike them to a certain extent.
Even when it comes to fortune-telling, many people who have had their fortunes told often have a feeling that their predictions have really come true.
In fact, this principle is also at work.
In the fake scar experiment, the subjects were made to believe that they had a scar on their forehead when in fact they did not.
So he will think that others will look at him more nervously, and thus act nervous.
But what he didn't know was that it was his nervousness that made others nervous, not the scar on his forehead.
This creates a self-fulfilling prophecy.
So there is an old Chinese saying that the more you calculate your fate, the worse it becomes.
As long as you have listened to the fortune teller's prediction of your destiny, even if you do not believe it, this part of the prediction has already had a huge impact on your life.
If he said he was lucky, then he really was lucky.
If he said that his fate was rough, then it might really be a rough fate.